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Real Housewives of Atlanta star Drew Sidora claims she paid her estranged husband Ralph Pittman half her RHOA salary in newly leaked texts.
As fans of the show know, Drew and Ralph have been embroiled in a bitter divorce since 2023.
TMZ obtained text messages between Drew and Ralph that were submitted as evidence in their divorce case.
“Good morning, Ralph,” Drew wrote on April 13, 2026. “I’ve reviewed the monthly expense tracker and I most definitely cannot afford 9K of household expenses at this time. Are you going to pay for half of the groceries as well as half of the kids’ expenses for the month?”
“Good morning,” Ralph responded. “I produced per the order and I believe this is very generous as you haven’t contributed anything towards the home in a number of years. Hopefully you can see what it has taken to run this household over the years.”
“Your attorney should be advising you but if you don’t pay, you will be in contempt,” he added. “This spreadsheet contains major expenses. There will be other smaller ancillary costs that I’ll send you directly. For instance, I had to buy salt for the pool as it’s being serviced today and lightbulbs.”
“Ralph, how can you say I haven’t given you money toward the house in years?” Drew replied. “I’ve given you 50% of my money for Real Housewives and all along you were getting paid directly from Bravo as well! I gave you 50% of my endorsement deals … and my movies. Let’s talk about how you took $300,000 out of my money I received personally on my personal injury settlement.”
Drew also asked Ralph why the mortgage wasn’t paid on their Georgia home, detailing they were $25K behind in payments.
“You’re making stuff up again, so I won’t entertain,” Ralph told her.
Drew reached out again to Ralph on April 14, stating, “You have done the ultimate betrayal and tried to destroy me as their mom, defame my character, career, brand, and me as a human being time and time again, so please just focus on what’s best for the kids moving forward.”
‘You can no longer hide and don’t want people to see you for who u really are,” Ralph answered. “All the lies you told are being cleared without me doing anything. You’re a terrible person, and I pray you work on your spirit.”
He added: “Don’t try and act like u want to be a mom now. It’s too late. You’re too delusional to even understand what’s happening. Try praying for yourself.”
“You got banished from church for trying to date the politician’s daughter, you loser,” Drew fired back. “My mom and I tried to save you, but only God can save you now. I pray you repent.”
Ralph, in turn, answered that he “tried to date the politician’s daughter” and claimed Drew’s mom “tried to save” him.
“I know I’m a loser and guess what, you are too,” he elaborated. “Watch when you get your attorney bill. Ur really gonna feel like a loser.”
As of late, Drew has accused Ralph of “severely beating” their son, insisted she’ll be homeless if she’s forced to vacate their home, and has lost primary custody of their kids.
To date, their divorce remains ongoing.