Tom Sandoval’s Bandmate Claims Victoria Lee Robinson Abused Tom and Promised to ‘Ruin’ Him, Shares What He Allegedly Witnessed

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Tom Sandoval's Bandmate Claims Victoria Lee Robinson Abused Tom and Promised to 'Ruin' Him, Shares What He Allegedly Witnessed

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Vanderpump Rules alum Tom Sandoval and his estranged ex, Victoria Lee Robinson, have been going back and forth ever since she was arrested last month.

When that occurred, Tom filed for a restraining order, claiming verbal and physical abuse. Victoria also accused Tom of abuse and ended up filing for her own restraining order, which was denied. 

In the latest update, Tom’s bandmate, Jason Bader, the manager and drummer of Sandoval’s band, Tom Sandoval & The Most Extras, has spoken out to have Tom’s back.

According to The Daily Mail, Jason is alleging that he saw Victoria kick and spit at Tom “several times” while they were on tour. 

“She is the worst person I have ever met in my entire life. I have never met someone so two-faced, manipulative and evil,” Jason shared. “It was sick watching it all go down. I have never experienced anything like it.”

The outlet noted that they reviewed court filings in which Tom alleged Victoria physically attacked him and hit him in the head repeatedly, which led to him having blurred vision as well as ear and neck injuries. 

Although Victoria accused Tom of abuse, Jason insisted he “never saw Tom retaliate in any physical way.”

“Tom is someone who has the ability to defend himself and physically match up with people because he’s a wrestler. Even when people are getting rough with him, like fans, he wants to de-escalate the situation,” Jason stated. “I heard him yell back at her, but that’s it.”

Jason also alleged that the incident in which Tom referred to in his restraining order filing from June was not the first time Victoria was physical with him.

During an October 10 tour date in Florida, Jason stated security and personnel had to pull Victoria away from Tom. 

He also called her a “fame-hungry, ruthless sadist” and insisted she bragged about her plan to “ruin Sandoval’s life.”

“She is a very messy person and would be so violent with him,” he elaborated. “She scared me. She will do whatever it takes for the betterment of herself.”

He also shared that he thinks Victoria thought she would become famous like Ariana Madix, stating he once heard her yell at Tom, “I am going to ruin you. I am going to get the Ariana treatment. I hate you. I don’t want to be with you.”

He went on to note Tom “lived in fear” over Victoria’s behavior and that she “tried to control him 24/7.”

“Tom had his own little room in the back of the bus and the rest of us were in bunks. And we would hear her screaming and fighting with him while we were all trying to sleep,” he said. “She was always saying how much she hated Tom and how she was going to ruin Tom.”

“Tom played his trumpet outside of the bus and Victoria got very angry,” Jason later shared, describing another alleged incident where Victoria got physical. “She ran out and just started attacking him. She was punching him in the chest and his head. She was kicking and spitting at him, just saying horrible things. She was escorted back onto the bus very quickly, because they didn’t want the fans seeing, worried that Tom would be embarrassed.”

‘I’ve never seen anything like that in my life. It was insane,” he added.

He also claimed he’s “happy to give evidence” to police, lawyers, and a court to help Tom’s case and that he was not compensated to give his input.

“I truly feel sad for Tom. I hope he gets as far away from her as possible,” he concluded. “Tom is done with her. The restraining order stops her manipulation – legally. It’s over.”

The outlet also reached out to Tom, who confirmed that what Jason said was factual. 

Victoria has yet to comment on the latest report.