RHOBH’s Rachel Zoe Slams Ex Rodger for Telling Son About Girlfriend, Shares If They’re Still Together, and Offers Update on Their Relationship

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RHOBH's Rachel Zoe Slams Rodger for Telling Son About Girlfriend, Says She Brought Out the "Worst in Him," and Reveals If They're Still Together, Plus Offers Update on Relationship and Confirms They Spent Thanksgiving Together

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Rachel Zoe lashed out at her estranged husband Rodger Berman after Thursday night’s episode of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills saw her slamming him as an “f*cking a**hole.”

Following a scene in which she reacted to Rodger, 57, telling their youngest son, Kaius, 12, that he had a girlfriend — just after she left the country and without his older sibling, Skyler, 14, present — Rachel, 54, slammed his decision as she revealed that the woman, believed to be stylist Bree Jacoby, who she referred to as an “it” and a “thing,” brought out the worst in her ex, confirmed whether they were still dating, and looked back at their family Thanksgiving in Miami.

“That was a brutal day,” Rachel recalled on the March 12 episode of the RHOBH: After Show. “He was alone with his dad. He hadn’t been with him in a month, and for whatever reason, my ex decided to tell him about the girl. He told Kaius, my sensitive little angel, when he wasn’t even with his brother. That’s what made it even [worse], and I wasn’t there.”

According to Rachel, “everything about that moment was so wrong.”

“It was like a knife in my soul, and it was sort of like, ‘Okay, what part of this seems okay to you?'” she continued. “I said, ‘Do not talk about it and do not bring her near them without us talking about it and me being okay with it, because I can soften that landing a little bit.'”

While confronting Rodger about the matter, he pointed out that he and his girlfriend had been together for a year, saying, “It’s time,” and encouraging her to look up when it was okay to bring a partner around the kids.

“[He’s] Googling if it’s okay to tell [his] child about another girl?” she wondered. “Everything about that person is wrong and brings out the worst in him. It makes him not make good decisions. It makes him not — she is an ‘it’ babe, she’s nothing more than an ‘it.’ Any good woman that he would be with would say, ‘You know what, your kids aren’t ready to see me yet. You shouldn’t have me around.’ She just showed up where she wasn’t invited.”

After annihilating Rodger from Italy on the night of the incident, Rachel confirmed she’d gotten an apology.

“It doesn’t erase anything, but it sort of like, ‘Okay, at least you took one minute in the last year and a half and said I’m sorry,'” she reasoned. “Every decision you’ve made in the last year and a half has said otherwise, has shown otherwise. So you know, I think he’s doing some self-reflecting.”

Rodger is also now thinking without Bree’s apparent input, as they broke up at the end of last year while Rachel was at BravoCon.

Since then, Rodger has reportedly been dating someone else.

“He’s like, ‘I’m single as ever.’ I was like, ‘You’re confused. Being single doesn’t mean going to Aspen with somebody for a week that you met three weeks ago.’ I was like, ‘Be alone for a week, for a month,'” Rachel shared.

Although Rodger may not want to stay single, his relationship with Rachel has gotten “better” since splitting from Bree. In fact, they spent Thanksgiving with their kids in Miami.

“We were in Miami for Thanksgiving 2025 with my whole family, and he went to Miami with a friend, a guy friend, and at like, 5 o’clock on Thanksgiving, I’m like, ‘What are you doing for Thanksgiving?’ And I said, ‘Okay, well, you don’t have to but if you want to, you can come for dessert or a drink.’ And do you know what? He said, ‘I would love to see everybody and I would love to be with the kids,’ and he came over.”

“Everyone was normal to him except my dad. My dad just wasn’t ready. They were besties. [But] my mom was good,” she revealed. “My mom was the one who [said], ‘You know, Rachel, you can’t be alone on Thanksgiving.’”

The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills season 15 airs Thursdays at 8/7c on Bravo.