Pump Rules’ Lala Kent Reveals How Randall “Tainted Sex,” Says She Ocean’s Provider and Explains Lack of Playdates With Scheana, Plus Plans for Baby No.2

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Pump Rules' Lala Kent Reveals How Randall "Tainted Sex," Says She Ocean's Provider and Explains Lack of Playdates With Scheana, Plus Plans for Baby No.2


Lala Kent claims she doesn’t want to have sex because former fiancé Randall Emmett has tainted the experience.

During the latest episode of her podcast, the Vanderpump Rules cast member explained why she’s currently “disgusted” by the idea of being intimate before revealing the reason behind Scheana Shay‘s apparent absence with her friend group and noting herself as her daughter’s “provider.”

“I’m not ready to have sex yet. I’m not ready. I have so much work to do in this program still. My relationship with sex back in the day was like, ‘Add him to the roster, this is so fun, let’s drink, let’s touch each other.’ Then I get into a relationship and now that it’s ended and my eyes are open to what was going on behind my back, sex is tainted for me,” Lala explained on the March 2 episode of Give Them Lala. “I think about it and I’m disgusted. I gotta get out of that. I have to reclaim my sexuality. I have to reclaim what sex means to me because right now it’s dirty, it’s gross. It represents betrayal, it represents darkness. And none of my doing, all of someone else’s doing.”

As Pump Rules fans have surely heard by now, Lala allegedly caught Randall cheating on her in October of last year. And, in the months since, she has claimed to have learned that his infidelity stemmed far beyond just one woman.

While Randall has been spending time with their nearly-one-year-old daughter since their breakup, Lala told her listeners that she is Ocean’s provider — and that Randall does not contribute to the money coming into her household at all.

“I’m Ocean’s provider. The money that comes into my household is coming from me, only me,” she revealed, noting that enrolling Ocean into a pricey preschool (which she said costs $16,000 per year for just two days a week) may not be practical.

“I can’t do the whole, ‘My kid goes here because it’s fun for the moms,’” Lala explained. “Some of the moms start preschool at 2 or 3. I’m not ready to send her to preschool at that age. Four is good. I don’t want her gone every day. Maybe two to three days a week is fine for a few hours. I like being where my kid is so [there’s] all these bridges that I’m like, ’No, we don’t need to cross yet.’”

For now, Lala said she’s enjoying playdates with her former Pump Rules cast mates, including Stassi Schroeder and Brittany Cartwright.

“Me, Brit, and Stassi signed the girls and Cruz up for baby sensory classes on Wednesday and it’s like Mommy and Me,” Lala revealed.

As for Scheana, Lala said it is sometimes “hard’ to make plans with her co-star.

“The thing that’s hard with Scheana is she lives the dream where she like, has her place in L.A., she has her place in San Diego, she has her place in Palm Springs. She travels. Like, she lives such a fun, fun life but what’s hard is like I always know that she’s constantly on the move,” Lala explained. “I knew Scheana couldn’t do [the classes] because she’s spending her time in San Diego right now.”

While Lala is currently single, she is planning to give Ocean a sibling “one day,” and prefers to do so without a partner.

“I’m not opposed to like finding a sperm donor. So when that time comes, because I don’t want her super old and then I bring a baby in… If that time comes, and I haven’t met anyone who I know is a good dude and has cleared the background check that I have secretly run on him. Then, pull up the computer and show me some dudes,” Lala said. “I have no problem with that.”

Although Lala isn’t looking to get serious with anyone at the moment, she said she is “talking to a few people” while concentrating on other areas of her life.

“My mom has asked me a few times like, ‘What are you wanting?’ Even one of these dudes asked me, ‘What are you looking for? I said, ‘Nothing.’ I’m fulfilled,” Lala noted. “I have my business that I’m working on. I have family, I have a great group of friends. I have zero expectations.”

As fans await an announcement in regard to the series’ potential 10th season, Lala is looking ahead to her podcast tour and revealed during Wednesday’s episode of her podcast that several Pump Rules personalities will be joining her.

“Scheana and Brock will be joining me in Nashville, Tennessee. I’m so excited. The segment that I have with them is lit. [And] we have Jax and Brittany for the Florida dates. They’re locked in,” she confirmed.